Sometimes, the more you
think about something
and sometimes the longer
that you spend obsessing about someone -
in retrospect, you can eventually
come to discover that could have
spent the time that you did
pursuing what makes you happy,
rather than being held back
by those who never truly will...
sometimes love can be like a house of cards -
and it can take the removal
of one card out of many
to bring everything crashing down...
sometimes, we can find that we are
putting more effort into a relationship
that our significant partner -
and that is when we can come
to start hearing the alarm bells ring
and start seeing the signs
that point to an instability
within the balance of the necessary
give and take that is essential
and should always be mutual...
sometimes, we can all easily be deceived
into believing a good lie -
because we put all our trust
in someone who from the moment 
that we met them made our heart
pulse like the lightning of a thunder cloud...
there is a reason why some things
come easy to some people
and there is a reason why some things
come harder for others -
but just because something
is effortless or difficult
that does not mean that further
effort is not necessary in maintaining
the energy and the momentum of something,
until a transformation occurs
that makes us all naturally reevaluate it...
somethings will always change,
some people will always remain the same -
but no matter how
the roll of the dice shakes out,
as long as you can say with
your hand on your heart
that you did your best
and you did all you could,
then nothing and no one
can judge you on something's
ultimate fate.